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crying during sex

The Beauty of Crying After Sex: Embracing Your Emotional Release

Sexual release can be a profoundly emotional experience for some of us. As we engage in sexual activity, our
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Erotic Dreams

Understanding and Embracing Your Erotic Dreams

Have you ever had an erotic dream about someone of the same sex, even if you identify as heterosexual?
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make-up sex

Make-up Sex, Dirty Talk and More: Tips for Hotter Sex with an Ex

Make-up sex can be incredibly hot and hard to resist. Just look at this email I recently received from
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Feeling Undesired

Feeling Undesired at Home: A Sex Coach’s Perspective

Feeling undesired in a long-term relationship is a common issue that many couples face. If you’re reading this, chances
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Sexual frequency

Sexual Frequency in Marriages Over 50

As a sex coach with decades of experience, I’m often asked about sexual frequency in marriages. One question repeatedly
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Healing after infidelity

Healing After Infidelity

Infidelity can be a devastating blow to any relationship, leaving partners wondering how to move forward and rebuild trust.
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stronger orgasms

How to Have Stronger Orgasms

Are you tired of chasing the elusive ‘Big O’ and never quite reaching that peak of pleasure? Well, fear
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sexual flush

Understanding Sexual Flush

Have you ever experienced a sudden rush of heat and redness during or after sex? Don’t worry; it’s probably
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Dr. Patti is the featured sex coach by Oprah! …Happy Holidays!!!!

In the November-December issue of "O" magazine the cover says,  "There's a coach for that!" -- Dr. Patti, was the featured sex coach! 
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