Sexual Frequency in Marriages Over 50
As a sex coach with decades of experience, I’m often asked about sexual frequency in marriages. One question repeatedly arises: “How often do 50-year-old married couples make love?” I spoke
Welcome to my world! I am so happy that you are here. I have been a clinical sexologist for over 4 decades and I founded the profession of sex coaching in 1993. It has been my life’s passion to assist people to find a pathway to their sexual fulfillment, to heal their sexual wounding, and to discover their full sexual potential, with an emphasis on pleasure and enhancement. I use a holistic, non-medicalizing, depathologizing, sexually-affirming approach in all of my work. I love to help my clients by digging deep into the how’s without spending years on probing the why’s. I love my work, my clients, my students and speaking my truth wherever that leads me. Right into your heart, I hope!
Here is how to work with me. There are three different ways: Be coached by me; be trained by me; or at an in-person or virtual event. I am here for them all, with planning and based on my availability. So get prepared to grow, stretch, and, yes, to have fun!
Coaching
Lifting you to new heights of sexual ecstasy by unearthing the depths of your full sexual potential using my MEBES© Signature System.
Training
Guiding you to become a safe, competent, compassionate container for your clients' needs for them to heal, grow, and expand into optimal sexual wellness.
Praise From Clients
Alex
Dr. Patti encourages an open environment in which I can discuss my insecurities, which have often been very difficult to express to others. She is compassionate and works with me in a non-judgmental way to confront my issues, whether they are physical or psychological. Ultimately, she strives to help me become a better lover - emotionally, romantically, and physically.
Alex — USA
Darlene
Sometimes we forget how much we have been through in the life and let the stress and worrisome insecurities take charge! After our session, I let go of a lot of negative energy and refocused what is the good and the need at the current moment. Thank you, Dr. Patti for keeping me on the right track of positive and powerful thinking and acting on it! I love you!
Darlene — USA
Rene
Frustrated, alone, desperate, and depressed, I reached out to Dr. Patti! Peeling the multiple layers of my stifling religious past and the emotional disconnection from my sexualality, Dr. Patti started healing them one by one. She opened up boxes that were never explored, released all the feelings of embarrassment, and encouraged a sense of freedom and intimacy that I didn't know was possible. All of the fear around sex went right out the window! Thank you Dr. Patti for saving my marriage and teaching me how to appreciate my sexuality!
Rene — USA
Chelsea
I started working with Dr. Patti because I desired a more exciting sex life. I had mental, physical, emotional and spiritual blocks around sex. Other healing outlets I tried, such as therapy, failed to provide the results I was seeking. During the first five minutes of my first session with Dr. Patti I knew I had found my coach and guide for this period of self-discovery. Her unique approach tied together science, emotional intelligence, intuition, and spirituality. It was something I had never seen before, but was confident it was exactly what I needed to heal.
Chelsea — USA
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My Creativity Kitchen
I know. You think I’m going to share sensual aphrodisiac recipes, right? Nope. Welcome to the inside of my Creativity Kitchen, my special happy place where I’ll be cooking up new projects. Maybe it’s the next chapter in the trilogy of narrative memoir books that I’m working on about my life as a sexdoc. Or maybe it’s a new Sexy Single Seniors story about Boomer dating forays. Or a new art project (yes, I paint!) or spicy photo essays and tales from my global travels. I’ll be revealing one by one what’s new in the Creativity Kitchen—and I want you to be the first to have a taste!
- Art projects
- Stories
- Book chapters
- Essays
- Brain teasers
- Think pieces
- Games or puzzles
- Guess again
Dr. Patti's Art
Welcome to my art projects. I began making art as a child, always pushing some form of crayon, or pen or metallic ink with a brush for a drawing or painting or even assembling papier mâché objects at a back table in the kitchen of my own home. As life…
I love to travel!
I love to travel! Maybe it’s related to my background of being Daughter #1 in a 5-sister family, the children of an immigrant father, with an international exposure from birth. I spoke 3 languages in high school and my dad spoke 16! Honestly, even to this day I always dream…
Writing by Dr. Patti
I've always been a writer, since I was a little girl. I currently have several different writing projects in process & I plan to share about them all.
