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Sexual Wellness

Welcome to my world! I am so happy that you are here. I have been a clinical sexologist for over 4 decades and I founded the profession of sex coaching in 1993. It has been my life’s passion to assist people to find a pathway to their sexual fulfillment, to heal their sexual wounding, and to discover their full sexual potential, with an emphasis on pleasure and enhancement. I use a holistic, non-medicalizing, depathologizing, sexually-affirming approach in all of my work. I love to help my clients by digging deep into the how’s without spending years on probing the why’s. I love my work, my clients, my students and speaking my truth wherever that leads me. Right into your heart, I hope!

Here is how to work with me. There are three different ways: Be coached by me; be trained by me; or at an in-person or virtual event. I am here for them all, with planning and based on my availability. So get prepared to grow, stretch, and, yes, to have fun! 

Coaching

Lifting you to new heights of sexual ecstasy by unearthing the depths of your full sexual potential using my MEBES© Signature System.

  • Fast paced and personalized approach
  • Targeted to your unique needs
  • Based on the Britton MEBES © Signature System for results that last
  • Guiding you to Sexual Self Realization and more...

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Training

Guiding you to become a safe, competent, compassionate container for your clients' needs for them to heal, grow, and expand into optimal sexual wellness.

  • The leading edge in sexology, coaching, and business training
  • Evidence-informed teaching
  • Professional development by the “Mother of Sex Coaching” herself
  • Online, self-paced learning in a safe container
  • Global, cross-cultural community of support and networking

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Events

My events will shatter the way you’ve been thinking and feeling about sexuality and transform your perception of what is possible...

  • Professional training intensives
  • Personal growth retreats
  • VIP days with me at selected venues
  • Live media events
  • Delicious surprise adventures

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Praise From Clients

Alex

Dr. Patti encourages an open environment in which I can discuss my insecurities, which have often been very difficult to express to others. She is compassionate and works with me in a non-judgmental way to confront my issues, whether they are physical or psychological. Ultimately, she strives to help me become a better lover - emotionally, romantically, and physically.

Alex USA
Darlene

Sometimes we forget how much we have been through in the life and let the stress and worrisome insecurities take charge! After our session, I let go of a lot of negative energy and refocused what is the good and the need at the current moment. Thank you, Dr. Patti for keeping me on the right track of positive and powerful thinking and acting on it! I love you!

Darlene USA
Rene

Frustrated, alone, desperate, and depressed, I reached out to Dr. Patti! Peeling the multiple layers of my stifling religious past and the emotional disconnection from my sexualality, Dr. Patti started healing them one by one. She opened up boxes that were never explored, released all the feelings of embarrassment, and encouraged a sense of freedom and intimacy that I didn't know was possible. All of the fear around sex went right out the window! Thank you Dr. Patti for saving my marriage and teaching me how to appreciate my sexuality!

Rene USA
Chelsea

I started working with Dr. Patti because I desired a more exciting sex life. I had mental, physical, emotional and spiritual blocks around sex. Other healing outlets I tried, such as therapy, failed to provide the results I was seeking. During the first five minutes of my first session with Dr. Patti I knew I had found my coach and guide for this period of self-discovery. Her unique approach tied together science, emotional intelligence, intuition, and spirituality. It was something I had never seen before, but was confident it was exactly what I needed to heal.

Chelsea USA

"Your Boomalicious Life"
Podcast

I am a proud Baby Boomer, in the primary wave of our generation. I know firsthand what it’s like to cope with aging. It’s our mission to stay youthful, juicy, sexy, alive and healthy, while keeping a reality check on the changes we face. For 2 years, I co-hosted a popular Internet radio show called “The Boom Doctors” (with my beloved life partner, Dr. Robert Dunlap, who died in 2017.) “Your Boomalicious Life”  is dedicated to serving the needs of my generation, The Unstoppable Boomers, with a special tribute to our sexuality related issues, while focused on all aspects of Boomer Life: cultural, social, health, wealth, travel, family, death, and more… 

Each week, I will bring you guests with a spin on how aging is affected by their specialty area. I will talk to you about topical issues, such as relevant streaming entertainment, sizzling cultural events, pivotal sea changes in how we think, feel, live and thrive as we age. Keep coming back!

Recent Episodes

Episode 4: "New Visions of Sexuality as We Age"

Episode 4: "New Visions of Sexuality as We Age"

Episode Summary Michele Lyons is an expressive arts and sex coach. As she says, “My clients include heterosexual men, women and couples. Even though they come to me for sexual concerns such as low libido, dating anxiety or erectile dysfunction, I find that low self-esteem, lack of confidence, and negative…
Episode 3: "LGBTQ Aging and Sex"

Episode 3: "LGBTQ Aging and Sex"

Episode Summary Dr. Jane is a sexuality educator who came to this work late in life. As she writes, “As a result, my focus is not on young children, adolescents, or even parents. I’m on a mission to promote the sexual wellness of older adults, especially those in senior living…
Episode 2: "BDSM: Access to Bliss"

Episode 2: "BDSM: Access to Bliss"

Episode Summary Dr. Celina says: “My work revolves around sexual expression and freedom. Each person has their own relationship to their body, their pleasure, and their sexual behavior. I believe that when there is harmony in this area of life, it is easier to connect with partners and find paths…

My Creativity Kitchen

I know. You think I’m going to share sensual aphrodisiac recipes, right? Nope. Welcome to the inside of my Creativity Kitchen, my special happy place where I’ll be cooking up new projects. Maybe it’s the next chapter in the trilogy of narrative memoir books that I’m working on about my life as a sexdoc. Or maybe it’s a new Sexy Single Seniors story about Boomer dating forays. Or a new art project (yes, I paint!) or spicy photo essays and tales from my global travels. I’ll be revealing one by one what’s new in the Creativity Kitchen—and I want you to be the first to have a taste!

  •  Art projects
  •  Stories
  •  Book chapters
  •  Essays
  •  Brain teasers 
  •  Think pieces
  •  Games or puzzles
  •  Guess again

What's Cooking?

Dr. Patti's Art

Dr. Patti's Art

Welcome to my art projects. I began making art as a child, always pushing some form of crayon, or pen or metallic ink with a brush for a drawing or painting or even assembling papier mâché objects at a back table in the kitchen of my own home. As life…
I love to travel!

I love to travel!

I love to travel! Maybe it’s related to my background of being Daughter #1 in a 5-sister family, the children of an immigrant father, with an international exposure from birth. I spoke 3 languages in high school and my dad spoke 16!  Honestly, even to this day I always dream…
Writing by Dr. Patti

Writing by Dr. Patti

I've always been a writer, since I was a little girl. I currently have several different writing projects in process & I plan to share about them all.

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