Coaching

What Exactly is Sex Coaching?

Using my unique “Bulls Eye Solution,” we work from the inside out; changing just one pattern about your sexuality can change your entire life!

Sex Coaching is a professional style~blending the best of sexology (“the what”) with life coaching (“the how”). Think of it as part psycho-sexual education and counseling with a powerful drive to let you reach your stated goals. Dr. Patti’s pioneering Sex Coaching formula is comprised of these 6 building blocks.

Personalized Sex Education

  • Find the facts that you deserve to know about sex
  • Understand your sexual responses
  • Discover your own anatomy & physiology
  • Unlock your unique sexual patterns or “sexual blueprint” and
  • Get at what stops you from experiencing your full pleasure potential.

Mental Reframing

  • Dispel negative thinking with immediate results that shift to the positive
  • Bust myths that harm you
  • Master mind control to eliminate dysfunctional patterns and
  • Navigate the pathway for your sexual success.

Emotional Balancing

  • Reveal troubling emotional states
  • Discover solutions to toxic fear, guilt or shame and
  • Experience healing through their expression and resolution.

Intuitive Guidance

  • Gain from my own unique gift of reading energies,
  • Follow me “outside the box” of traditional, medically-based methods for sex therapy and
  • Reach your innermost truths.

Behavioral Training

  • Work with a global resource directory of like-minded experts
  • Obtain guidance and support along the way of your sexual healing process
  • Ultimately live fully as your authentic sexual self and
  • Know what it’s like to reach maximal sexual satisfaction.

Resource Management

  • Work with a global resource directory of like-minded experts
  • Obtain guidance and support along the way of your sexual healing process
  • Ultimately live fully as your authentic sexual self and
  • Know what it’s like to reach maximal sexual satisfaction.

What Can Sex Coaching Do For You?

Heal Sexual Wounds
Know
Yourself
Connect with
a Partner
Enhance
Pleasure Skills
Become Your Authentic Self
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Let go of the past
Get into the present
Find a future together
Fly into ecstasy with a lover
Realize your sexual potential

Common Sexual Struggles
As We Age

As we reach our “golden years,” our bodies change, eroticism shifts, desires wane, we encounter new challenges with medical conditions, disabilities, and medications. Many of us must face new roadblocks associated with enjoying our sex lives to the fullest. These are the Top 10 sexual concerns I help my clients overcome:

  •  Myths about aging and sex/uality
  •  Fear of losing your edge
  •  Physical changes with aging
  •  Toxic shame
  •  Low libido or changing desires
  •  Body image conflict
  •  Erection difficulties
  •  Orgasm challenges
  •  Misplaced expectations
  •  Communication deficits
  •  Medical issues and RX drug side effects
  •  And more….

Uncover YourTrue Sexual Potential

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Dr. Patti's Signature System

The MEBES© Model, created by Dr. Patti, has been widely adopted as the gold standard in the field of Sex Coaching. The model is used to address certain areas of the human condition that are essential to reaching our full sexual potential.

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M

Mind

self-talk, thinking about sexual performance, capacity for fantasy

E

Emotions

feelings from the past, what you suppress, intimacy

B

Body

understanding sexual function, acknowledging sexual dysfunctions

E

Energy

build-up, containment & expression of energy, energy patterns

S

Spirit

essence of self, sacred sexuality, experience of the Divine or God.

What's the sex coaching process like?

Our work together is a process, not an event. We will follow the steps below to help you unravel your past sexual story that’s holding you back. Together we will install new pathways to your sexual success. And I will be the guide at your side all the way. My sex coaching sessions are talk only, and you will take home suggestions and exercises that empower, uplift, and create a roadmap for your journey to sexual self realization, alone and/or with a partner.

Your path will look like this: 

  1. First we’ll have an intake conversation, where you give me the overview of what you’re struggling with and where you’d like to get to.
  2. We’ll explore your blockages in the five areas of your sexual self (see MEBES Model above).
  3. I’ll conduct a thorough sexual history interview with you, to give me a fuller picture of your background and what has influenced where you are today.
  4. Together, we’ll develop an action plan to achieve your goals.
  5. I’ll monitor your progress along the way, tweaking the action plan as needed to recalibrate your direction.
  6. Finally, we’ll celebrate the outcome of a new sexual you! 
It’s all going to be a joyful journey together. Let’s get started now! 

Sex Coaching Pricing

Sex Coaching Single Session

1 session of 60 minutes for $375

What you get:

  •  All sessions are 60 minutes in length.
  •  One on one time with me, as your sex coach, bringing you along the path that we co-create to achieve sexual self-realization and to reach your stated sexual/relationship goals.
  •  A detailed follow-up Session Notes report on the content and highlights of each session; sent to you with 3 days of the actual session, by email, citing areas of concern, addressing action steps for you to take as Home Assignments, reflecting on the content we discussed, and offering specific suggestions for how to move forward.
  •  One “spot coaching” 10-minute follow up to each live session by email or telephone, upon request, to be used between sessions only.
  •  All sessions are held via Zoom on video conferencing; a recorded copy of the session may be provided upon request in advance of the session for your self study purposes.
  •  All couples must meet with me together for Session 1; then separately in individual sessions to review a Sex & Relationship history; then together as a team again; based on my assessment, sometimes further individual sessions are required; all sessions are charged at the same rate.
  •  Payment is due at the completion of each Single Session and there are no refunds; I do not accept insurance but do accept credit cards, PayPal, Zelle and payment plans.

Sex Coaching 4 Pack

4 sessions of 60 minutes each for $1275
(savings of 15% per session)

What you get:

  •  All sessions are 60 minutes in length.
  •  All 4-Packs must be used by the expiration date, within 120 days after purchase date.
  •  No refunds for 4-Packs if unused beyond the expiration date.
  •  One on one time with me, as your sex coach, bringing you along the path that we co-create to achieve sexual self realization and to reach your stated sexual/relationship goals.
  •  A detailed follow up Session Notes report on the content and highlights of each session; sent to you with 3 days of the actual session, by email, citing areas of concern, addressing action steps for you to take as Home Assignments, reflecting on the content we discussed, and offering specific suggestions for how to move forward.
  •  One “spot coaching” 10-minute follow up to each live session by email or telephone, upon request.
  •  All sessions are held via Zoom on video conferencing; a copy of the session may be provided upon request in advance of the session for your self study purposes.
  •  All couples must meet with me together for Session 1; then separately in individual sessions to review a Sex & Relationship history; then together as a team again; based on my assessment, sometimes further individual sessions are required; all sessions are charged the same.
  •  Payment is due at the completion of each Single Session and there are no refunds; I do not accept insurance but do accept credit cards, PayPal, Zelle and payment plans.

Couples’ Weekend Intensives

A 2-day weekend with you for $3,000

What you get:

  •  100% attention by me as your sex coach throughout the process.
  •  A customized weekend intensive, based on a comprehensive intake procedure.
  •  Fully designed to meet your unique goals and needs.
  •  I will be in your presence, in a designated setting, for the full time of the intensive, uninterrupted and focused exclusively on your process; this will occur in person, not virtually, with stringent safety protocols in place for all concerned.
  •  Videotaping of the sessions is included upon request (non edited).
  •  A complete report of the Take Aways and Highlights from the intensive
    are sent to you within 7 days after the completion of the intensive.
  •  Follow up session via Zoom is included in the package (60 minutes) to debrief the outcome of the intensive.
  •  At the completion of the intensive, there are no refunds; payment is required in advance.
  •  All lodging and food accommodations (or my travel costs, if required) are not included in the fees for the intensive. I do not accept insurance but do accept credit cards, PayPal, Zelle and payment plans.

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Praise From Clients

Alex

Dr. Patti encourages an open environment in which I can discuss my insecurities, which have often been very difficult to express to others. She is compassionate and works with me in a non-judgmental way to confront my issues, whether they are physical or psychological. Ultimately, she strives to help me become a better lover - emotionally, romantically, and physically.

Alex USA
Darlene

Sometimes we forget how much we have been through in the life and let the stress and worrisome insecurities take charge! After our session, I let go of a lot of negative energy and refocused what is the good and the need at the current moment. Thank you, Dr. Patti for keeping me on the right track of positive and powerful thinking and acting on it! I love you!

Darlene USA
Rene

Frustrated, alone, desperate, and depressed, I reached out to Dr. Patti! Peeling the multiple layers of my stifling religious past and the emotional disconnection from my sexualality, Dr. Patti started healing them one by one. She opened up boxes that were never explored, released all the feelings of embarrassment, and encouraged a sense of freedom and intimacy that I didn't know was possible. All of the fear around sex went right out the window! Thank you Dr. Patti for saving my marriage and teaching me how to appreciate my sexuality!

Rene USA
Chelsea

I started working with Dr. Patti because I desired a more exciting sex life. I had mental, physical, emotional and spiritual blocks around sex. Other healing outlets I tried, such as therapy, failed to provide the results I was seeking. During the first five minutes of my first session with Dr. Patti I knew I had found my coach and guide for this period of self-discovery. Her unique approach tied together science, emotional intelligence, intuition, and spirituality. It was something I had never seen before, but was confident it was exactly what I needed to heal.

Chelsea USA