Coaching

What Exactly is Sex Coaching?
Using my unique “Bulls Eye Solution,” we work from the inside out; changing just one pattern about your sexuality can change your entire life!
Sex Coaching is a professional style~blending the best of sexology (“the what”) with life coaching (“the how”). Think of it as part psycho-sexual education and counseling with a powerful drive to let you reach your stated goals. Dr. Patti’s pioneering Sex Coaching formula is comprised of these 6 building blocks.

Personalized Sex Education
- Find the facts that you deserve to know about sex
- Understand your sexual responses
- Discover your own anatomy & physiology
- Unlock your unique sexual patterns or “sexual blueprint” and
- Get at what stops you from experiencing your full pleasure potential.
Mental Reframing
- Dispel negative thinking with immediate results that shift to the positive
- Bust myths that harm you
- Master mind control to eliminate dysfunctional patterns and
- Navigate the pathway for your sexual success.
Emotional Balancing
- Reveal troubling emotional states
- Discover solutions to toxic fear, guilt or shame and
- Experience healing through their expression and resolution.
Intuitive Guidance
- Gain from my own unique gift of reading energies,
- Follow me “outside the box” of traditional, medically-based methods for sex therapy and
- Reach your innermost truths.
Behavioral Training
- Work with a global resource directory of like-minded experts
- Obtain guidance and support along the way of your sexual healing process
- Ultimately live fully as your authentic sexual self and
- Know what it’s like to reach maximal sexual satisfaction.
Resource Management
- Work with a global resource directory of like-minded experts
- Obtain guidance and support along the way of your sexual healing process
- Ultimately live fully as your authentic sexual self and
- Know what it’s like to reach maximal sexual satisfaction.
What Can Sex Coaching Do For You?
Heal Sexual Wounds
KnowYourself
Connect with a Partner
Enhance Pleasure Skills
Become Your Authentic Self
Common Sexual Struggles As We Age
As we reach our “golden years,” our bodies change, eroticism shifts, desires wane, we encounter new challenges with medical conditions, disabilities, and medications. Many of us must face new roadblocks associated with enjoying our sex lives to the fullest. These are the Top 10 sexual concerns I help my clients overcome:

- Myths about aging and sex/uality
- Fear of losing your edge
- Physical changes with aging
- Toxic shame
- Low libido or changing desires
- Body image conflict
- Erection difficulties
- Orgasm challenges
- Misplaced expectations
- Communication deficits
- Medical issues and RX drug side effects
- And more….

Uncover YourTrue Sexual Potential
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Dr. Patti's Signature System
The MEBES© Model, created by Dr. Patti, has been widely adopted as the gold standard in the field of Sex Coaching. The model is used to address certain areas of the human condition that are essential to reaching our full sexual potential.
Hover over the letters for more info.
M
Mind
self-talk, thinking about sexual performance, capacity for fantasy
E
Emotions
feelings from the past, what you suppress, intimacy
B
Body
understanding sexual function, acknowledging sexual dysfunctions
E
Energy
build-up, containment & expression of energy, energy patterns
S
Spirit
essence of self, sacred sexuality, experience of the Divine or God.
What's the sex coaching process like?
Our work together is a process, not an event. We will follow the steps below to help you unravel your past sexual story that’s holding you back. Together we will install new pathways to your sexual success. And I will be the guide at your side all the way. My sex coaching sessions are talk only, and you will take home suggestions and exercises that empower, uplift, and create a roadmap for your journey to sexual self realization, alone and/or with a partner.
Your path will look like this:
- First we’ll have an intake conversation, where you give me the overview of what you’re struggling with and where you’d like to get to.
- We’ll explore your blockages in the five areas of your sexual self (see MEBES Model above).
- I’ll conduct a thorough sexual history interview with you, to give me a fuller picture of your background and what has influenced where you are today.
- Together, we’ll develop an action plan to achieve your goals.
- I’ll monitor your progress along the way, tweaking the action plan as needed to recalibrate your direction.
- Finally, we’ll celebrate the outcome of a new sexual you!

Sex Coaching Pricing
All clients are screened before booking a session. A payment link is sent to you after each session.

Sex Coaching Single Session
1 session of 60 minutes for $375
What you get:
- All sessions are 60 minutes in length.
- One on one time with me, as your sex coach, bringing you along the path that we co-create to achieve sexual self-realization and to reach your stated sexual/relationship goals.
- A detailed follow-up Session Notes report on the content and highlights of each session; sent to you with 3 days of the actual session, by email, citing areas of concern, addressing action steps for you to take as Home Assignments, reflecting on the content we discussed, and offering specific suggestions for how to move forward.
- One “spot coaching” 10-minute follow up to each live session by email or telephone, upon request, to be used between sessions only.
- All sessions are held via Zoom on video conferencing; a recorded copy of the session may be provided upon request in advance of the session for your self study purposes.
- All couples must meet with me together for Session 1; then separately in individual sessions to review a Sex & Relationship history; then together as a team again; based on my assessment, sometimes further individual sessions are required; all sessions are charged at the same rate.
- Payment is due at the completion of each Single Session and there are no refunds; I do not accept insurance but do accept credit cards, PayPal, Zelle and payment plans.
Sex Coaching 4 Pack
4 sessions of 60 minutes each for $1275
(savings of 15% per session)
What you get:
- All sessions are 60 minutes in length.
- All 4-Packs must be used by the expiration date, within 120 days after purchase date.
- No refunds for 4-Packs if unused beyond the expiration date.

- One on one time with me, as your sex coach, bringing you along the path that we co-create to achieve sexual self realization and to reach your stated sexual/relationship goals.
- A detailed follow up Session Notes report on the content and highlights of each session; sent to you with 3 days of the actual session, by email, citing areas of concern, addressing action steps for you to take as Home Assignments, reflecting on the content we discussed, and offering specific suggestions for how to move forward.
- One “spot coaching” 10-minute follow up to each live session by email or telephone, upon request.
- All sessions are held via Zoom on video conferencing; a copy of the session may be provided upon request in advance of the session for your self study purposes.
- All couples must meet with me together for Session 1; then separately in individual sessions to review a Sex & Relationship history; then together as a team again; based on my assessment, sometimes further individual sessions are required; all sessions are charged the same.
- Payment is due at the completion of each Single Session and there are no refunds; I do not accept insurance but do accept credit cards, PayPal, Zelle and payment plans.

Couples’ Weekend Intensives
A 2-day weekend with you for $3,000
What you get:
- 100% attention by me as your sex coach throughout the process.
- A customized weekend intensive, based on a comprehensive intake procedure.
- Fully designed to meet your unique goals and needs.
- I will be in your presence, in a designated setting, for the full time of the intensive, uninterrupted and focused exclusively on your process; this will occur in person, not virtually, with stringent safety protocols in place for all concerned.
- Videotaping of the sessions is included upon request (non edited).
- A complete report of the Take Aways and Highlights from the intensive
are sent to you within 7 days after the completion of the intensive.
- Follow up session via Zoom is included in the package (60 minutes) to debrief the outcome of the intensive.
- At the completion of the intensive, there are no refunds; payment is required in advance.
- All lodging and food accommodations (or my travel costs, if required) are not included in the fees for the intensive. I do not accept insurance but do accept credit cards, PayPal, Zelle and payment plans.
Meet Amanda
Sex Coaching Associate, Amanda Vee,aka “Your Pleasure Pro”.

- Rate: $150 per 50-minute session.
- Payment package available: For a 6-session package $800, savings of $100. Package must be completed within three months.
- A summary report (by email or in print) of the highlights of each client session is available upon request after each session.
- At the end of 6 sessions or three months an evaluation is conducted to assess your progress and offer guidance about the pathway to your success.
- Payment is made at the end of each session.
Amanda works with males/females/couples of all gender identities or sexual/erotic orientations.
She loves to serve clients struggling with these issues:
- Low sexual self esteem
- Erectile or ejaculatory challenges
- Orgasmic difficulties
- Low or no sexual desire
- Couples’ desire conflicts
- Sexless couples
- Body image issues
- Individuals with unrealized fantasies and longings
- Sexual Explorers, such as BDSM, kink, CNM and more….