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Sex Coaching
You have a right to sexual wellness, pleasure, and joy. Together we’ll resolve the obstacles so you can embrace your authentic sexual self.
Services
Sex Coaching
You have a right to sexual wellness, pleasure, and joy. Together we’ll resolve the obstacles so you can embrace your authentic sexual self.
Enjoy a Fulfilling Sex Life No Matter Your Age
As we reach our “Golden Years,” our bodies change, eroticism shifts, desires wane, we encounter new challenges with medical conditions, disabilities, and medications.
Many of us must face new roadblocks associated with enjoying our sex lives to the fullest.
But the most common issue is sexless or touchless relationships.
Other common concerns my clients struggle with include:
- Myths about aging and sex/uality
- Fear of losing your edge
- Physical changes with aging
- Toxic shame
- Low libido or changing desires
- Body image conflict
- Erection difficulties
- Orgasm challenges
- Misplaced expectations
- Communication deficits
- Medical issues and RX drug side effects
- And more….
Sex Coaching Is the Answer
The solution isn’t breaking up or learning to live in silence and misery.
Reading all the self-help books in the world isn’t going to improve your sex life, either.
What you need is a guide trained in all the intricacies of intimacy and sexuality… an experienced sex coaching professional who can guide you from fizzle to sizzle.
Sex coaching can take you from those dreading-the-bedroom moments to ones where you embrace one another with joy and excitement.
Hi, I’m Dr. Patti and I’ll be your guide.
Using my unique “Bulls Eye Solution,” we work from the inside out. Changing just one pattern about your sexuality can change your entire life!
What is Sex Coaching?
Sex Coaching is a professional style ~ blending the best of the science of sexology (“the what”) with steps to fulfillment found in life coaching (“the how”).
Think of it as part psycho-sexual education and counseling with a powerful drive to let you reach your stated goals. My pioneering sex coaching formula is comprised of these six building blocks.
Personalized Sex Education
- Find the facts that you deserve to know about sex
- Understand your sexual responses
- Discover your own anatomy & physiology
- Unlock your unique sexual patterns or “sexual blueprint” and
- Get at what stops you from experiencing your full pleasure potential.
Mental Reframing
- Dispel negative thinking with immediate results that shift to the positive
- Challenge stereotypes and bust myths that harm your intimate relationships
- Master mind control to eliminate dysfunctional patterns
- Expand your perspective
- Navigate the pathway for your sexual success
Emotional Balancing
- Reveal troubling emotional states holding you back
- Explore the source of your reactions and consider their impact on your partner
- Learn to self-soothe and self-regulate your feelings
- Discover solutions to toxic fear, guilt or shame
- Experience healing through their expression and resolution
Intuitive Guidance
- Gain from my own unique gift of reading energies
- Follow me “outside the box” of traditional, medically-based methods for sex therapy
- Reach your innermost truths
- Explore the power of your own intuition
- Learn to listen to your inner voice and discern its guidance
Behavioral Training
- Identify behaviors that are sabotaging your pleasure
- Master how to manage “performance anxiety”
- Discover the pathway to embodiment
- Unlock my unique FOPS™ model
- Learn the 9 steps to female orgasm
- Find pleasure in all parts of the sexual self
Resource Management
- Work with a global resource directory of like-minded experts
- Obtain guidance and support along the way of your sexual healing process
- Ultimately live fully as your authentic sexual self
- Enjoy a deeply satisfying romantic partnership
- Know what it’s like to reach maximal sexual satisfaction
What Can Sex Coaching Do For You?
Heal Sexual Wounds
Let go of the past
Know Yourself Intimately
Get into the present
Connect with a Partner
Find a future together
Enhance Pleasure Skills
Fly into ecstasy with a lover
Become Your Authentic Self
Realize your sexual potential
My Unique, Holistic Approach
Your sex life doesn’t exist in a vacuum. It’s interwoven into every aspect of your life.
That’s why I developed my own systems and techniques for working with clients that involves identifying and resolving blockages in all five realms of your being.
MEBES™ stands for Mind, Emotions, Body, Energy, and Spirit.
The MEBES™ Signature System has been widely adopted as the gold standard in the field of sex coaching.
This approach is essential to helping you reach your full sexual potential.
How the Sex Coaching Process Works
Our work together is a process, not an event.
We will follow the steps below to help you unravel your past sexual story that’s holding you back.
Together we will install new pathways to your sexual success. And I will be the guide at your side all the way.
My sex coaching sessions are talk-only, and you will follow home suggestions and exercises that empower, uplift, and create a roadmap for your journey to sexual self realization, alone and/or with a partner.
My 6 Step Process
- INTAKE – Our first conversation will give me an overview of what you’re struggling with and where you’d like to get to.
- SEXUAL HISTORY – This interview-style session reveals a fuller picture of our background and what has influenced where you are today.
- BLOCKAGE EXPLORATION – Together, we’ll use my MEBES™ Signature System to uncover where you’re blocked in each of the five areas of your sexual self.
- ACTION PLAN – We will co-create an action plan with exercises and reflection, designed to help you achieve your goals.
- MONITOR & TWEAK – I’ll monitor your progress along the way, tweaking the action plan as needed to recalibrate your direction.
- CELEBRATE – We’ll cheer for joy as you embrace your new sexual self!
Sex Coaching Pricing
Sex Coaching Single Session
- Price Range: $250 – $375 per hour
- Session Details: Each session lasts for 60 minutes and is conducted via Zoom. The session includes:
- Grounding & Centering Process
- Check-in & Targeted Assessment
- Goals Reset, Successes/Challenges Review
- Take Aways & Blessing
- Action Planning & Next Steps
- Follow-Up:
- A full written summary report will be sent within 7 days.
- Detailed follow-up session notes report.
- One “spot coaching” 10-minute follow-up.
Sex Coaching 4 Pack
- Price Range: $850 – $1275 for 4 sessions
- Session Details: Each of the four sessions lasts for 60 minutes and is conducted via Zoom. The package includes:
- Grounding & Centering Process
- Check-in & Targeted Assessment
- Goals Reset, Successes/Challenges Review
- Take Aways & Blessing
- Action Planning & Next Steps
- Follow-Up:
- A full written summary report will be sent within 7 days.
- Detailed follow-up session notes report.
- One “spot coaching” 10-minute follow-up per session.
Couples’ Weekend Intensives
- Price Range: $1,500 – $3,000 in total
- Session Details: This intensive provides 100% attention by the coach throughout the process, with a customized weekend itinerary based on a comprehensive intake procedure. The intensive is fully designed to meet your unique goals and needs, with:
- Video recording of the sessions included upon request (non-edited).
- Follow-Up:
- A full written summary report will be sent within 7 days.
- A follow-up session via Zoom is included in the package (60 minutes) to debrief the outcome of the intensive.
General Information
- Booking: All clients are screened before booking a session. A payment link is sent after each session.
- Payment & Policies: Payment is due at the completion of each Single Session, and there are no refunds. While insurance is not accepted, credit cards, PayPal, Zelle, and payment plans are available. A sliding fee scale is available for clients with special circumstances.
- Session Recording: All coaching sessions are held via Zoom video conferencing. A recorded copy of the session may be provided upon request in advance for self-study purposes.
- Lodging & Food: All lodging and food accommodations (or travel costs, if required) are not included in the fees for the intensive.
Let’s work together
