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Chasing Sex: Wanting Love, Finding Myself

A memoir by Patti Britton

You Can Survive & Thrive No Matter What Happens to You

Imagine surviving multiple sexual traumas, abduction, losing a child, and more…how would you respond?

You’ve likely endured your own experiences of grief, loss, abuse, violation, and you’re struggling to make sense of it all.

Maybe you’re wondering how you can help others going through their own darkest times.

In Dr. Patti Britton’s new memoir, Chasing Sex: Wanting Love, Finding Myself, you’ll meet a woman who has done just that. 

“Patti’s passion for sex, love and intimacy will inspire you with her hopeful messages and insightful lessons learned.”

John Gray

Best-selling relationship author of Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

How to Reclaim Your Strength, Your Voice, and Your Joy

From the ashes of adversity, a fierce and compassionate warrior was born. Chasing Sex: Wanting Love, Finding Myself is Patti’s unforgettable memoir of resilience, reinvention, and reclaiming power. 

Overcoming multiple sexual violations and the challenges of single motherhood on welfare, Patti forged a groundbreaking path that earned her the titles “Grand Dame of Sexology” and “Mother of Sex Coaching.”

Through her trailblazing career, Patti became a beacon for women seeking to reclaim their pleasure, power, and purpose. 

Join Patti on this powerful journey of growth and healing. 

Her story will resonate deeply with anyone who’s faced grief, trauma, or struggle – and will inspire you to reclaim your strength, your voice, and your joy.

From Darkness into Light: Lessons Learned

Throughout her life, Dr. Patti learned some deep life and love lessons.

From funny to painful to poignant, these hard-won truths carried her through the darkness until she learned to shine her own bright light in the world.

  1. Never ever ignore disturbing, intuitive feelings about anything or anyone.
  2. People are not always who they say they are. Trust your gut, stay safe, then savor the experience of it all.
  3. The pain of being alone should never outweigh the pain of being in an unsatisfying relationship.
  4. Generosity of spirit leads to bountiful outcomes.

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Enjoy all 52 of the lessons Dr. Patti has learned over the course of her amazing life.

Sign up here to join her mailing list and she’ll send you one lesson per week for the next year (as soon as the book is published).

Watch your approach to life transform as you embody these lessons.

Learn how to protect your boundaries, listen to your instincts, follow your dreams, be authentically and unapologetically yourself…and so much more.

About Dr. Patti

“Dr. Patti” is a world-renowned sexologist who pioneered the profession of sex coaching. She has dedicated her life to helping others embrace sexual pleasure as a divine birthright.

At nearly 80 years old, Patti continues to be a role model for vitality, passion, and empowerment. Her work has touched countless lives, and she remains a guiding light for sexual wellness worldwide.

More Praise for Chasing Sex

“Patti Britton’s memoir Chasing Sex: Wanting Love, Finding Myself is the story of a woman who followed rules, broke rules, and, finally, wrote her own rules. It’s the story of a woman finding and coming into her power. It’s the story of a woman who, having empowered herself, enables others to empower themselves. It’s a story of the drama of desire, the precariousness of human nature, and the journey of personal transformation. It’s a story of the erratic, yet undeniable power of love, and the power, magic, and mystery of sex. It’s a story told with charm and subtle wit and is all the more powerful because of that. And it’s even a story that comes with its own soundtrack! It’s an altogether un-put-downable book.”

Lisa Segal, Author of Kicking Towards the Deep End and Jack Grapes’ Method Writing: The Brush-Up Book

“Patti Britton has not only written a beautiful memoir, Chasing Sex: Wanting Love, Finding Myself. She has given us the gift of herself. Now she has given us a new window with honesty, playfulness, and her bold and direct writing about the world of sex. From her roots in New York to the woods of Vermont to the beaches of California and beyond, Patti has found herself and we are so fortunate to have been able to witness her fullness. Thank you for this book, Patti. You are a treasure.”

Jane Fleishman, PhD, Co-Host, “Our Better Half” and author of The Stonewall Generation: LGBTQ Elders on Sex, Activism & Aging

“Patti Britton is a longtime sexuality activist, the inventor of sex coaching, and founder of its esteemed training program, Sex Coach U. She ranks among the world’s most important, innovative, and visionary sexologists. Her rollicking memoir is fun, fierce, exuberant, and very sexual (but R-rated). Her life has involved transcendent highs and tragic lows—and almost every type of sex imaginable. Through it all, Patti remains an affable, articulate, fun-loving, spiritual seeker and an inspiration to all women (and those of other genders) who hope to make a difference in the world. Two thumbs way up!”

Michael Castleman, Author of Sizzling Sex for Life: Maximize Erotic Pleasure at Any Age

“Dr. Patti Britton’s life story is a ‘must read’—riveting, entertaining and profound. She has had the courage to explore all of sex, embracing its forbidden taboos along with its deepest wellsprings of pleasure.  This book shares how it all unfolded to help her become a woman ahead of her time—helping us all reclaim eros, sensuality, and orgasms into our lives. Thank you, Dr. Patti!”

Udana Power, Writer/Speaker/Producer, Creator of The Friendchise®, author of Anatomy of a Miracle, and The Law of Blooming®

“In this tour de force memoir, Dr. Patti takes us on a poignant, playful, and sexy romp by unfurling her painful and chaotic early start which led her to New York City during the era of the women’s rights movement into her eventual metamorphosis into a world-class sexologist. Chasing Sex: Wanting Love, Finding Myself is one woman’s courageous and vulnerable account of resilience and what it takes to become your own person. This story of a life well-lived, with jaw-dropping moments and spiritual teachings around every corner, does not disappoint!”

Alexandra Katehakis, PhD, Author, Mirror of Intimacy: Daily Reflections on Emotional and Erotic Intelligence

“I love this book! Chasing Sex: Wanting Love, Finding Myself spans a very significant historical period for women: from the postwar 40s to current times, from outmoded rules to freedom to express creatively in business and personal choices. Patti is a pioneer in changing the landscape around sex, love and relationships with her unique voice and refreshing vulnerability as she shares her early mistakes, her courage as a young single mother, and the incredible wisdom gained over many decades. Patti Britton is a consummate expert in Sexology and deeply spiritual— a potent combination.”

Linda E Savage, PhD, Author of Reclaiming Goddess Sexuality: The Power of the Feminine Way

“Dr. Patti Britton is the sexual mentor we’ve needed all our lives – showing us the way to authentic and shame-free living as she shares her beautifully written and courageous life story.”

Dr. Jane Guyn, Founder of www.howtofixmysexlife.com

“From neglectful parents to a glamorous aunt, childhood accidents to adult adventures, and dating mishaps to sexual experimentation, Britton crafts a memoir that is both moving and insightful. Her vulnerability and life stories reveal the passion behind her decades-long advocacy for sex education, sexual rights, and pleasurable sexual lives — an advocacy for which we owe her a deep debt of gratitude.”

Jennifer Gunsaullus, PhD, Sociologist & Author of From Madness to Mindfulness: Reinventing Sex for Women

“This book reads like a real-life romance novel! Dr. Patti spills her never-ending adventures that created her story full of life, death, relationships, and most of all, sex. Her pursuit of lustful desires intertwines with her passionate desire for chasing love, while constantly retaining unrelenting positivity throughout her entire life. We should all strive to embrace such honest, truthful, and heartfelt wisdom for all our days on earth.”

Kim Airs, Sexuality Specialist, Founder of GrandOpening.com

“Despite the terrors she has faced, Patti’s journey as an empowered woman is an inspiration for us all!”

Deborah Shames, Co-founder of Eloqui and author of Own the Room, Out Front, and Briefly Speaking series

Get Your Copy Today

Chasing Sex: Wanting Love, Finding Myself is available now.

Gift yourself and someone you know this riveting story of a woman who overcame all the negativity the world could throw at her and learned to thrive and inspire others to reclaim their sexual power and embrace their true selves.

Whether you’re seeking inspiration to overcome your own challenges, looking to understand the complexities of human sexuality, or simply crave a powerful tale of transformation, this book delivers. Patti’s words will resonate long after the last page.

Don’t miss this opportunity to be moved, challenged, and ultimately uplifted.

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