TEABAGGING IN THE FOREST

Dear Dr. Patti:

My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2-years. I’m 32 years old, and he is actually my 2nd sexual partner! Our relationship is beautiful and our sex life is incredible. However, when it comes to oral sex, I’m a little apprehensive. I’m getting better with the standard “blow-job”, yet what really turns him on is “tea bagging”!! Wow, was that a new one for me. I would love to bring him the pleasure he is looking for in this act, yet it’s like pulling teeth to get him to shave that area. I struggle with pleasuring him and navigating through the “forest”! Yet the times he does shave, I do a lot better! But for the most part he remains au-natural. He feels as though I should not have requirements for pleasing him. Yet, I feel that if I can prepare myself for him that it should be an easy gesture for him to do the same. Please help me. I’m not sure if I should just leave it alone and learn how to navigate the terrain or put my foot down. Any suggestions???

Bagging Babe

Dear Bagging Babe:

Well, in case others don’t know the term, “teabagging” is a fun way to talk about sucking on a male’s testicular sac. Or even popping those delicate family jewels inside the skin of his sac into your eager open mouth and doing whatever you like. (Not biting, of course, unless that’s his turn-on, too). My heart goes out to your courage and tenacity at trying to please your guy’s hairy balls. Okay I said it. Many men do enjoy the act of shaving or being shaved on that bag of joy marbles, so maybe you can entice him into letting you do the deed. Or there’s always the male version of the Brazilian. You can even get home kits for hot waxing, but always with great care. Ouch is not an erotic word, unless you’re both into a bit of S&M play. I can only say that if this upsets you, and you are not happy licking or sucking on a forest of tiny curly hairs, then you have to speak up and change it. I suspect that if you continue to accept his non-acceptance of your ploys for hair removal, eventually you will become either resentful or worse yet, stop wanting to do this at all. Who loses then? Both of you. Talk it over, let him imagine that the tables are turned and he has to keep going down on your personal field of pubic hairs, find some creative ways to zip off those little barbies, and then plunge into your shared pleasures on naked skin.

All the best, Dr. Patti

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