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I’m bi…bi-coastal that is, even though I’ve identified for the past 20 years as an Angeleno(a).  I try to stay away from politics as a sex doc, but this year’s Oscars is too important [...]

It’s that time again especially here in So Cal, the Capital of Entertainment. Here’s how life goes in the LA zone around Academy Awards time: anxiety, angst, massive lines at local theaters so [...]

Where Grief Meets Sexuality The intersection of grief and sex(uality) is profound. In my clinical sexology practice, my clients exhibit a multitude of sexually related issues: sexless [...]

Did you know that anybody can call themselves a sex coach? As a Certified Sexuality Educator and Supervisor member of AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and [...]

I want to share my story–and how I came to do the work that I do–as the pioneer of Sex Coaching and award winning Sexuality Educator.   Let’s start from the beginning. I was born [...]

Sex coaching has been my calling, my profession, and my passion for the past 20 years. As the pioneer of sex coaching, having worked with hundreds of clients, and having trained hundreds more [...]

    Today is the day of a new dawn in American politics and perhaps in American life itself. This election was a wake-up call to the divided and pained nation that is the USA. I did not [...]

This article was originally published in SHE magazine, September issue. Click here to get your copy!   In my career of over 30 years as a sex coach in my private practice, there’s not a lot [...]

This article has some great information on how to use different kinds of sex toys alone, as foreplay or during sex. The infographic below also makes a great quick guide. If choosing a toy is [...]

Many people look at my career from a distance and think, “What a glamorous life you lead!” Quite the contrary, although I wouldn’t give it up for anything. I work a 60-hour week, cope with the [...]