Fifty Shades (and all the reviews from both sides of fence) have certainly stirred up a vibrant conversation about BDSM. The release and popularity of the novels sparked a growing interest in BDSM for many, and I’m sure the movies will revive fantasies for many more. As new players flock to local dungeons all over the country, there’s a lot of people who are exploring their role in this new and exciting world.

Roles are an important aspect of BDSM community. Players tend to identify their role when introducing themselves to other kinksters so the players will know if they might be compatible. Two submissive players may be able to have great vanilla sex, but they will struggle to meet their BDSM needs without a Dominant partner.

If you’re trying to decide whether you’re dominant like Christian Grey, or submissive like Anastasia Steele (or some other combination of characteristics), try taking the BDSM test at bdsmtest.org. The results are extremely detailed and will be a great way to spark conversation with your current partner(s) or potential play partners you’ve yet to meet.

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